Naughty or Nice

I have noticed that there are basically two kinds of men out there.The "naughty" man is always doing something that comes from his own self centered needs.He does what he wants when he wants.They have a never ending need for attention and act like 3 year olds if they don't get their way.That is because they did not get past that stage of maturing when they were toddlers.They are grown men with a 3 year old mentality.Your boundaries,if you have any are crossed because they have none of their own which makes it impossible to have any type of relationship.3 year olds get into everything under the sun even though they are disciplined repeatedly.They cannot comprehend consequence yet,all they know is I want it now!They(bless their hearts)can cause total kayos if they don't get their way,which is very similar to how the adult "child" acts!For some really crazy reason we think that this type of man is attractive and challenging.He never becomes the man you think he will and most certainly can not love and value anything,not even himself!What is even more crazy is that the super nice guy standing next to him gets ignored and passed by!The nice guy doesn't demand attention and may not have the best hair or outfit on,but that is because he is who he is without all of that.His heart and mind are better looking than any naughty guy could hope for,we just overlook that very important part.Take time to evaluate your current situation because the stuff you start out dealing with is the stuff you will have to put up with FOREVER my dear.